[Note from Anthony: Continuing our serious smackdown of Shelley Lubben and her ministy against porn performers, we have here another testimonial from yet another active and happy porn starlet whom has also encountered the "witnessing" of Lubben and her disciples. Vicky Vette wrote this particular essay to her MySpace blog around June of last year.]
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Well, I do not know Shelley or her disciple that emailed me on her behalf. There is a saying that ‘judge not lest ye be judged…..’ I am sure Shelly has helped out tons of folks but if writing to people out of the blue assuming I am in a ‘prison’, ‘hopeless’ and in need a ‘way out’ is frankly a bunch of frikkin bull!
For any of my fans out there that do not know….. I am running an adult site called Vickyathome. I love doing it. I love meeting fans and other folks who like what I do, and yes, the sex is real and fun as well. I run the site with my significant other and we only put out adult content that we like….. no drugs or weirdness involved. If you see one of our scenes, we are usually laughing most of the time and having fun. It is I think one of the reasons why Vickyathome has gone up in popularity on the internet dramatically and is one of the top MILF sites in the world….. if it is not fun, I do not do it – period.
So here is the mail I get today:
From: Tobias Reaper [email addy redacted]
Sent: Wednesday, June 18, 2008 1:47 PM
To: [Vicky's site email addy redacted]
Subject: Had enough Vicky?
Dear Vicky Vette,
I hope this letter reaches you in the midst of good health. After a brief scrutiny of your website, it appears to me that you are a fulfilled person and that your work is a cause of great gratification for you. Yet, both of us know how large a lie that is. I am aware, that like all other porn-stars, you too are empty and dissatisfied from the inside. Many a times at night you wish that next morning, you just cease to exist. Some time after a show, you feel miserable and utterly hopeless. And that you know that all your “friends” in the “industry” are just bogus and that their friendships are made out of cardboard.
Yet, hope springs eternal from the human breast. I would like to invite you to visit
Shelly Lubben is a woman who is dedicated to bringing women out of the sex-industry and into the life of peace and tranquility. I am sure you feel trapped and it seems that there is no way out. But there is, as many women cited on this website can attest.
I do not know you personally, but I don’t know why I feel that you are an honorable and good woman from the inside. Just remember that it is never too late. Contact Shelley Lubben and give getting out of the prison you live at least one shot.
Kind Regards,
Not one of your regular fans.
Shahbaz Sheikh.”
I am sure Shelly and her disciple means well, but while there may be some people that need help in porn, I am not one of them. Frankly, there are people that need help in all walks of life…. lawyers to truck drivers. Should we be sending unsolicited ‘your life is prison’ emails out of the blue to every single person? Again, I am sure the work that is done is well meaning, but I for one really do not need an unsolicited ‘your life is crap’ message. People need only look at the promotional video on my site to see that while there is adult content, I am laughing, my partner is laughing, and I just film myself having fun. There are exceptions in every industry….. some girls I am sure are saying they are having fun when they are not. But jeez…. ask me first before sending me such a message. If I was depressed, that would have depressed me even more.
Memo to Shelly and her disciple…… NOT ALL PORN IS BAD…. I HAVE FUN, DON’T DO DRUGS OR DRINK, DON’T HAVE A DISEASE, AND FRIGGIN’ LOVE HAVING SEX ON CAMERA……. so shoot me already! I guess traveling and seeing the world, having sex when I enjoy it, and getting folks off around the world is meaningless…. where is the nearest cliff to jump off?????!!!!!!
Again, there may be folks getting used in porn who feel depressed and suicidal… TAKE ME OFF THAT LIST SHELLEY!
xo
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I read Brian Welsh’ book, Save Me From Myself, about his life with Korn. In his book he says that the band would hang out with porn stars. He says in his book that drugs were a huge part of the porn scene, just like the rock scene. Porn actresses have terrible addiction problems and those who say otherwise are simply liars. So if this porn actress says she doesn’t have addictions, well, she is by far the minority. As to the STD problem in porn, STDs are rampant. Even a woman who still defends the porn industry, Veronica Hart, says that 60% of
porn stars have STDs and that herpes seems to always be on a dildo.
Those who defend porn know that it destroys lives, they just defend it anyway, because that is how they make a living.
Oh, really, Achilles???
Let’s see…you reiy on the words of a former rock star who says that he encountered a few porn stars at his drug parties, and a stat from a former porn starlet turned porn executive who just happens to pull that stat out of her…brain??
Yeah, right.
Here’s a clue, Achilles: Most rock groupies are NOT porn starlets…and they are just as capable of getting caught up in the fast life and getting access to drugs. Having lots of money and free time tends to do that.
And….since STI’s are far more common in the “civilian world” than ever in porn (the transmission rates prove it), wouldn’t it be more true to say that STI’s don’t originate in porn and then venture out in the real world..but the other way around?? I mean, there was no such thing as herpes or HIV before porn, right??
No, porn does NOT destroy lives…individuals can do that all by themselves just fine.
Oh…and herpes cannot be spread on a dildo, FYI….unless it isn’t cleaned properly. Otherwise, wouldn’t every woman using one be infected??
Shelley Lubben is still a fraud and a attention whore….and a freakin’ hypocrite.
Anthony
I read Brian Welsh’s book, Save Me From Myself, about orgasim his life in LA with the heavy metal band Korn. His band spent quite a bit of time hanging out with porn actors and actresses. According to Welsh, drug abuse in the porn industry is rampant. The girls are heavy users of Xanax. The porn lifestyle is as miserable and self defeating as Shelley Lubben describes it. Even Veronic Hart, who still defends the industry says that STDs are a huge problem, and that herpes seems to always be on a dildo. Those who defend porn do so because they make money from it, pure and simple. But, in the process they sell their souls. I guarantee you girls, that God never intended for a man to finish his orgasm by ejaculating on your face or penetrating your anus. You have to ignore all the goodness He put in your souls to keep doing this.
Oh, I get it…is Brian Welsh a born-again Christian?? Well…his take on what porn is and isn’t is a bit, say, tainted by his own experiences — or was he sharing the Xanax along with the girls he partied with??
Just because he described it as his experience doesn’t make it universal, and just because Shelley Lubben says something and backs it up with tons of Biblical verses doesn’t make it true. And no, quoting Veronica Hart using the exact same quote AGAIN doesn’t make it true, either. (If she was that affected by porn as you said, BTW, then why is she still in porn as a distributor??
Funny, but if God never intended His people to enjoy sperm on the face, then the entirity of humankind would be fried right about now. Especially the Religious Right wing of the Republican Party. Maybe you should concentrate your fire on them rather than simply rehashing the same old fax.
Anthony
Hey Anthony,
Right…God absolutely never intended for a woman to take semen on her face. Say, what is your take on the interview that Jenna Jameson did on CNN, where she was asked what she would do if she had a daughter that wanted to go into porn. Here is her answer:
COOPER: And if your daughter one day said to you, if you had a daughter, if she came to you and said that she wanted to get into that industry?
JAMESON: I’d tie her in the closet. Only because this is such a hard industry for a woman to get ahead and get the respect that she deserves. I fought tooth and nail to get to where I am, and it’s not something that I would want my daughter to go through. It’s not something that any parent would choose for their child.
That is how pathetic this industry is. A woman who has made millions from it, would never let her daughter go into it. And you know what Anthony, I’d bet that you would never ever want your daughter to take cum on her face from 10 guys, would you Anthony, not if you are half a man, you wouldn’t.
Get out now porn “stars” and make lives for yourselves that you can be proud of. The STDs, drugs, alcohol, loss of self esteem, and depression aren’t worth it, folks.
God loves you and He wants you to experience true joy, not the pain of the porn industry.
Achilles….you amuse me a lot more than you anger me, but now you are becoming an irritant.
If “God” really didn’t intend women to enjoy facials, He probably would have laced sperm with battery acid. Considering that He didn’t, I’d probably think that he is not to concerned with spooge.
And just because Jenna says that she probably wouldn’t recommend her daughter replicate her career in porn means…exactly NOTHING, since (1) I assume the when Jenna’s daughter reaches adult age, she can make her own decisions about her chosen profession…and (2) whatever she does make is HER own business and neither yours or mine. Most parents probably don’t want their daughters growing up to be ballerinas or race car drivers, either….but try running your nonsense at Danica Patrick or Gelsey Kirkland.
Oh..and even Jenna Jameson represents only her own opinion, not that of the over 12,000 women who get into porn every year….each with her own experience; good, bad, ugly, or all of the above.
And..playing the “you don’t want your daughter doing such filthy, smutty things” meme only works for people who have daughters and who really give a care about being ransacked by fundie whackjobs like you. Since I don’t fit either description, and last time I checked I was still 100% a man, pardon me if I don’t accept your terms of debate. I guess that you don’t care too much about the sons doing the same thing, then??? After all, they’re the ones providing the spooge.
Unless you really do have something better to say, your future comments are going into the Moderation Queue. May God bless you and yours.
Anthony
Anthony,
You are quite right….we should not want our sons in this business, either. Now we are getting somewhere.
Think about it. When you do have children, will you be proud to show them sex videos of you cumming on a woman’s face? No, you’ll be terribly ashamed. Why? Because sex is meant to be shared between a man and a woman in the intimacy of marriage. It is beautiful and pleasurable, but porn perverts the beauty and the pleasure.
Anthony, the only reason to start putting off my responses is that you don’t want porn actors and actresses reading the truth. But, we when we ignore the truth, it always hurts us.
The porn lifestyle is filled with diseases, drug abuse, alcoholism, depression, and death. Get out folks!
Dewd…it’s sperm. Not battery acid. It wipes off clean with soap and water. No one is harmed by it. (Unless it gets in the eyes.) And I don’t remember anyone doing facials for anything other than their own private pleasure, not to show it to their children.
Oh…and women ejaculate too…or is the vagina considered much less sacred to you for anything other than a sperm deposit and a baby factory?
And…you do know that Vicky Vette IS a porn actress, right?? I’m guessing that she knows all about “the truth”, but chooses to make decisions for herself about her body.
Shill your nonsense somewhere else, please…you are done here.
Anthony